Why Action Is the Heart of Stoicism: Lessons From The Obstacle Is the Way

Understanding your obstacles is important. Seeing them clearly matters. But at some point, you have to stop thinking and start moving. This is the second discipline Ryan Holiday explores in “The Obstacle is the Way”—the discipline of action. It’s where philosophy meets the real world, where insight transforms into impact.

The Stoics weren’t armchair philosophers debating abstract concepts in ivory towers. They were emperors, soldiers, politicians, and slaves who faced real obstacles and needed real solutions. Their philosophy was forged in the fire of lived experience, and at its heart was a commitment to action over endless contemplation.

Why Action Is the Critical Bridge

You can have perfect perception—seeing your obstacle clearly, understanding its true nature, reframing it positively—and still accomplish nothing. Perception without action is just enlightened paralysis. The obstacle doesn’t care how well you understand it; it only responds to what you do about it.

Holiday emphasizes this point throughout his book: the Stoics believed in embodied philosophy. Your philosophy isn’t what you think or say—it’s what you do. Marcus Aurelius could have spent his time as emperor writing theoretical treatises on virtue. Instead, he ruled, he led armies, he made difficult decisions. He acted.

This distinction matters because modern culture often confuses thinking about doing with actual doing. We plan, strategize, analyze, and prepare endlessly. We read self-help books, attend workshops, and consume motivational content. But we don’t act. The obstacle remains because we’ve never actually engaged with it.

The Stoic answer is simple: start moving. Not recklessly, not stupidly—but deliberately, persistently, creatively. Action is the antidote to anxiety and the path through every obstacle.

The Power of Getting Started: Overcoming Inertia

One of the biggest obstacles we face isn’t external—it’s the inertia of not starting. We wait for the perfect moment, the perfect plan, the perfect circumstances. Meanwhile, time passes and the obstacle grows larger in our minds.

Holiday shares numerous examples of individuals who overcame massive obstacles simply by starting before they were ready. They didn’t have all the answers, all the resources, or all the skills. They had enough to take the first step, so they took it.

Amelia Earhart didn’t wait until she was a perfect pilot before attempting remarkable feats. She got in the cockpit and flew, learning and improving along the way. Each flight taught her something new, built her skills, and opened new opportunities. Had she waited until she felt “ready,” she might never have started.

The same principle applies to your obstacles. You don’t need to see the entire path before taking the first step. You just need to identify what you can do right now and do it. Action creates momentum, and momentum makes everything easier.

Think of it like pushing a heavy boulder. The initial push requires enormous effort—overcoming the static friction that keeps it in place. But once it’s moving, even slightly, maintaining that movement takes far less energy. The same is true with your obstacles. Starting is hardest. Continuing is easier.

Practice Persistence: The Stoic Virtue of Relentlessness

If starting is the first hurdle, persistence is the second. Many people start strong but quit at the first sign of difficulty or lack of immediate results. The Stoic approach demands something different: relentless, patient persistence in the face of setbacks.

Holiday dedicates significant attention to the virtue of persistence throughout “The Obstacle is the Way.” He shares the story of Ulysses S. Grant, a man who failed at nearly everything he attempted before the Civil War. Grant tried farming—failed. He tried business—failed. He tried to rejoin the army—was rejected.

But Grant kept moving forward. He took any work he could find, supported his family however possible, and maintained his dignity through repeated failures. When the Civil War created new opportunities in the military, Grant was ready. His persistence through years of failure prepared him for eventual success as the general who won the war and later as President.

Persistence isn’t just continuing to do the same thing over and over. It’s continuing to move forward while adapting, learning, and improving. It’s refusing to let obstacles stop you while remaining flexible about how you navigate them.

Iteration: The Art of Intelligent Trial and Error

One of Holiday’s most practical insights about action is the importance of iteration. The Stoics understood something modern innovators have rediscovered: progress comes through repeated cycles of action, observation, and adjustment.

You don’t need to get it right the first time. In fact, you probably won’t. What matters is that you try, learn from what happens, adjust your approach, and try again. Each iteration teaches you something. Each attempt, whether successful or not, provides data that improves your next attempt.

Thomas Edison famously said he didn’t fail ten thousand times to create the light bulb—he successfully found ten thousand ways that didn’t work. Each “failure” was actually a successful iteration that brought him closer to the solution. This is the Stoic approach to action: treat every attempt as an experiment that generates valuable information.

Holiday emphasizes that iteration requires ego death. You must be willing to be wrong, to look foolish, to fail publicly. Your attachment to appearing competent or having all the answers must be subordinate to your commitment to finding what actually works.

When facing an obstacle, ask yourself: what’s the smallest experiment I can run to learn something useful? What can I try today that will generate information about what works or doesn’t work? Then run that experiment and learn from it.

Following the Process: Focus on Actions, Not Outcomes

One of the most powerful action-oriented insights from Stoic philosophy is the emphasis on process over outcomes. You control your actions; you don’t control outcomes. Therefore, focus your energy on doing excellent work rather than obsessing over results.

Holiday calls this “following the process”—breaking down the overwhelming obstacle into small, manageable actions and then executing those actions with full attention and effort. It’s the only way to tackle something that seems impossible.

When Bill Walsh became head coach of the San Francisco 49ers, the team had won only two games the previous season. The obstacle was enormous: turning around a losing organization and culture. Walsh didn’t focus on winning championships. Instead, he focused on installing his system—teaching specific techniques, implementing standards, building culture one day at a time.

He followed the process. He controlled what he could control: his team’s preparation, their technique, their attitude. The outcomes would take care of themselves if the process was good enough. Within three years, the 49ers won the Super Bowl.

This approach is liberating. You don’t need to stress about whether you’ll overcome your obstacle. You just need to identify the right actions and execute them consistently. Do your job excellently right now, in this moment, and trust that the outcomes will follow.

Pragmatism: Doing What Works Rather Than What Looks Good

The Stoics were relentlessly pragmatic. They cared about what worked, not what sounded good or looked impressive. This pragmatism should guide your action against obstacles.

Holiday shares the story of how Demosthenes overcame a speech impediment to become one of history’s greatest orators. He didn’t do it through conventional methods or by following the established path. He put pebbles in his mouth and practiced speaking over the sound of crashing waves—whatever worked.

When facing your obstacle, forget about the “right” way or the impressive way. Ask only: what actually works? What will move me forward? Be willing to do the unglamorous work, take the indirect path, or use unconventional methods if they’re effective.

Ego often wants us to solve problems in ways that make us look smart or sophisticated. The Stoic approach is to check your ego and focus purely on effectiveness. Would the solution work? Then use it, regardless of whether it’s clever or conventional.

The Flank Attack: When Direct Action Fails

Sometimes obstacles can’t be overcome through direct action. You push against them and they don’t budge. This is where creativity and indirect approaches become essential.

Holiday introduces the concept of the “flank attack”—going around, under, or through an obstacle rather than attacking it head-on. When one approach fails, the Stoic doesn’t simply try harder with the same approach. They find a different angle, a new leverage point, an unexpected path.

Alexander the Great faced an impossible obstacle: the Gordian Knot, which legend said could only be untied by the future ruler of Asia. Many had tried to unravel it through conventional means and failed. Alexander looked at the knot, drew his sword, and cut it in half. The prophecy didn’t specify how the knot should be undone—only that the future ruler would be the one to undo it.

This is the essence of the flank attack: refusing to accept the obstacle’s terms. When the direct path is blocked, find an indirect one. When conventional solutions fail, invent unconventional ones. The obstacle doesn’t care how it’s overcome—only whether it is.

Using Obstacles Against Themselves: Martial Arts Philosophy

Holiday explores a fascinating paradox: sometimes the best way to overcome an obstacle is to use its own energy against it. This is basic martial arts philosophy—redirect the opponent’s force rather than matching it.

In judo, you don’t meet force with force. You move with the force, redirect it, and use it to your advantage. A smaller person can throw a larger one by using the larger person’s momentum against them. The same principle applies to obstacles.

When Rockefeller faced hostile railroad companies trying to destroy his business with high shipping rates, he didn’t fight them directly. Instead, he threatened to build his own pipelines—a move that would hurt the railroads more than it hurt him. The railroads backed down. Rockefeller used their size and power against them.

Look at your obstacles and ask: what can I use here? How can this obstacle’s strength become its weakness? Where can I redirect its energy rather than opposing it directly? Sometimes the obstacle contains the tools for its own defeat.

The Importance of Directed Energy: Focus and Priority

Action isn’t just about doing things—it’s about doing the right things. The Stoics emphasized concentration of force and clarity of purpose. Scattered, unfocused action wastes energy and accomplishes little.

Holiday stresses the importance of identifying your true priority and directing your action there. What is the highest-leverage action you can take right now? What will actually move you forward versus what just makes you feel productive?

This requires saying no to many good opportunities to say yes to the few great ones. It requires resisting the temptation to do everything and instead doing the essential things excellently. Your energy is finite; your obstacles may not be. Use your energy wisely.

Marcus Aurelius constantly reminded himself to focus on what mattered and ignore distractions. “Concentrate every minute,” he wrote, “like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise and genuine seriousness, tenderly, willingly, with justice. And on freeing yourself from all other distractions.”

Preparing for Failure: When Action Doesn’t Work

Holiday concludes his exploration of action with a sobering but important reality: sometimes your actions won’t work. You can do everything right and still not overcome the obstacle in the way you hoped. This is where action meets the third discipline—will.

The Stoics prepared for failure by expecting it. Not in a pessimistic way, but in a realistic way that prevented devastation when things didn’t go according to plan. They asked themselves: if this doesn’t work, what will I do then? How will I respond?

This preparation isn’t defeatism—it’s pragmatism. It ensures that failure of a particular action doesn’t become failure of your entire response. One approach didn’t work? Fine. What’s the next action? Failure becomes data, not destiny.

The key is to separate the outcome of an action from the worth of taking action. You took the best action available with the information you had. That’s all anyone can do. If it didn’t work, that doesn’t mean you failed—it means you learned what doesn’t work, which brings you closer to finding what does.

Conclusion: From Thought to Action to Impact

The discipline of action bridges the gap between understanding obstacles and overcoming them. Ryan Holiday makes clear in “The Obstacle is the Way” that philosophy without action is just theory—interesting perhaps, but ultimately impotent.

The Stoics knew that obstacles don’t respond to thoughts or intentions. They respond to actions. Persistent, creative, pragmatic actions executed with focus and adapted based on results.

Your obstacle is waiting for you to engage with it. Not just mentally, not just emotionally, but physically and practically. What action can you take today? Right now? This moment?

Start there. Start small if you need to, but start. Get moving. Follow the process. Persist through setbacks. Iterate based on what you learn. Stay flexible about methods while remaining committed to progress.

The obstacle is the way, but only if you walk the path. Action is how you walk. Everything else is just standing still and thinking about walking.

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