Personal
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Modern Men

Stylized illustration of Andrew Bustamante speaking into a microphone beside the words “Manipulator, Inspirer, or Follower?”
Andrew Bustamante spent seven years as a covert CIA officer before building EverydaySpy, […]
Find your purouse
Most “how to find your purpose in life” advice is written for someone […]
Man reading the NYT article "Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back" — a male perspective on modern dating and intimacy
A New York Times Modern Love essay went quietly viral for saying the […]
Real Man vs Real Woman: The Double Standard No One Talks About
Ask a hundred strangers what a real man looks like, and you’ll get […]
There’s a specific kind of loneliness that only shows up inside a relationship. […]
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